EP 347: Powerful Exercise to Gain Complete Support from Your Spouse

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Do you ever feel like you are the only one responsible for managing the household tasks in your relationship or marriage? Welcome ladies to the Real Estate InvestHER Show! In today’s minisode, Liz and Andresa discuss the importance of enlisting support from your spouse and how to go about it. They share a story of their own experience when talking about household tasks and how they learned to balance responsibilities between them.

Additionally, they provide an exercise on categorizing the duties and assigning each partner to own certain areas. Liz and Andresa also emphasize the importance of clear communication, delegation, flexibility, renegotiating contracts, pivoting when necessary, and being understanding of each other's changing needs in order to reduce mental energy spent on mundane or tedious tasks. Our co-hosts suggest considering factors such as skills, time available, and passion when assigning tasks. This allows both partners to have more time for themselves and their families as well as their business endeavors.

Ladies, if you want to learn more about creating balance in your relationship so that everyone can focus on what brings them peace and joy while still taking care of all the necessary tasks, this is the episode for you!

Quotes

· “Utilize your mental energy for growing your business, for developing relationships. Often, your energy is spent in thinking about what are you going to make for dinner or your kids’ summer camp. You really need to resolve that”. (06:40 – 07:01)

· “Deploy the household task with your spouse based on what skills, time available, passion, and best fit you both have." (07:50 - 07:58)

· “If your spouse is in charge of a task, don’t micromanage it. He owns it. You don’t have to do everything”. (09:10 – 09:32)

· “Prioritize what is important. Free up your time and your mental energy”. (10:47 – 11:04)

· “You need to become a big fan of the teachers around you. Start to learn what you could do. It is all about skill building as a leader.” (11:15 - 11:23)

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